diff --git a/go.mod b/go.mod
index 4adc558d..5532affb 100644
--- a/go.mod
+++ b/go.mod
@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/facebookgo/grace v0.0.0-20180706040059-75cf19382434
 	github.com/facebookgo/pidfile v0.0.0-20150612191647-f242e2999868
 	github.com/google/go-cmp v0.6.0
-	github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport v0.3.0
+	github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport v0.4.0
 	github.com/pkg/errors v0.9.1
 	github.com/prometheus/client_golang v1.19.1
 	github.com/vishvananda/netns v0.0.4
diff --git a/go.sum b/go.sum
index 9308aaac..4d7d2b12 100644
--- a/go.sum
+++ b/go.sum
@@ -155,8 +155,8 @@ github.com/kr/pty v1.1.1/go.mod h1:pFQYn66WHrOpPYNljwOMqo10TkYh1fy3cYio2l3bCsQ=
 github.com/kr/text v0.1.0/go.mod h1:4Jbv+DJW3UT/LiOwJeYQe1efqtUx/iVham/4vfdArNI=
 github.com/kr/text v0.2.0 h1:5Nx0Ya0ZqY2ygV366QzturHI13Jq95ApcVaJBhpS+AY=
 github.com/kr/text v0.2.0/go.mod h1:eLer722TekiGuMkidMxC/pM04lWEeraHUUmBw8l2grE=
-github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport v0.3.0 h1:iiZslO5byUYZEg9iCwJGf5h+sf1Agmqx2V2FDjPyvUw=
-github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport v0.3.0/go.mod h1:laea40AimhtfEqysZ71UpYj4S+R9VpH8PgqLo7L+SwI=
+github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport v0.4.0 h1:nR5KU7hD0WxXCJbmw7r2rhRYruNRl2koHw8fQscQm2s=
+github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport v0.4.0/go.mod h1:ZtI03j/wO5hZVDFo2jKywN6bYKWLOy8Se6DrI2E1cLU=
 github.com/mailru/easyjson v0.7.7 h1:UGYAvKxe3sBsEDzO8ZeWOSlIQfWFlxbzLZe7hwFURr0=
 github.com/mailru/easyjson v0.7.7/go.mod h1:xzfreul335JAWq5oZzymOObrkdz5UnU4kGfJJLY9Nlc=
 github.com/moby/locker v1.0.1 h1:fOXqR41zeveg4fFODix+1Ch4mj/gT0NE1XJbp/epuBg=
diff --git a/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/control_freebsd.go b/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/control_freebsd.go
new file mode 100644
index 00000000..cec1b11a
--- /dev/null
+++ b/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/control_freebsd.go
@@ -0,0 +1,27 @@
+//go:build freebsd
+
+package reuseport
+
+import (
+	"syscall"
+
+	"golang.org/x/sys/unix"
+)
+
+func Control(network, address string, c syscall.RawConn) (err error) {
+	controlErr := c.Control(func(fd uintptr) {
+		err = unix.SetsockoptInt(int(fd), unix.SOL_SOCKET, unix.SO_REUSEADDR, 1)
+		if err != nil {
+			return
+		}
+		err = unix.SetsockoptInt(int(fd), unix.SOL_SOCKET, unix.SO_REUSEPORT, 1)
+		if err != nil {
+			return
+		}
+		err = unix.SetsockoptInt(int(fd), unix.SOL_SOCKET, unix.SO_REUSEPORT_LB, 1)
+	})
+	if controlErr != nil {
+		err = controlErr
+	}
+	return
+}
diff --git a/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/control_unix.go b/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/control_unix.go
index 4197d1f7..e80688b5 100644
--- a/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/control_unix.go
+++ b/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/control_unix.go
@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-//go:build !plan9 && !windows && !wasm
+//go:build !plan9 && !windows && !wasm && !freebsd
 
 package reuseport
 
diff --git a/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/version.json b/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/version.json
index a654d65a..372b6eab 100644
--- a/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/version.json
+++ b/vendor/github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport/version.json
@@ -1,3 +1,3 @@
 {
-  "version": "v0.3.0"
+  "version": "v0.4.0"
 }
diff --git a/vendor/modules.txt b/vendor/modules.txt
index 3f36d41e..190965fa 100644
--- a/vendor/modules.txt
+++ b/vendor/modules.txt
@@ -290,8 +290,8 @@ github.com/klauspost/compress/internal/cpuinfo
 github.com/klauspost/compress/internal/snapref
 github.com/klauspost/compress/zstd
 github.com/klauspost/compress/zstd/internal/xxhash
-# github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport v0.3.0
-## explicit; go 1.19
+# github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport v0.4.0
+## explicit; go 1.20
 github.com/libp2p/go-reuseport
 # github.com/mailru/easyjson v0.7.7
 ## explicit; go 1.12